Send a message to the person who requested a photo of the grave monument of Archibald Borthwick with the following comment:
Trying to find out if his daughter eloped and married a Rutherford per family legend, or if I need to search other Borthwicks. If I can read the grave stones I may get more details to help the search. If info confirms the family tale I am happy to share info with cousins, but don't want to spread misinformation. Thank you for doing this!